Twin Flame vs Karmic Drama; Know the Nature pt 1 of 2

If you feel the yearning for intensity, the burning desire for completion, the rush and pull towards conflict within your relationships and fire you might be in the right place to continue reading on... Unfortunately karmic connections end up looking a lot like "twin flame" for todays culture, but are really an abusive relationship with a fake guise... and it's helpless until one of you gets out and breaks the cycle completely!

Usually these karmic relationships are full of relentless rehashing, enduring lengthy mistreatment and come accompanied by "intoxicating feelings of idealistic/unrealistic love" and delusion. 

Many people get the idealisation of a Twin Flame and a Karmic Connection mixed up... it's not our fault! Intensity and love can be confusing can't it, but once we learn, we stop going back. Let's we dive in and look from a holistic viewpoint, and how to spot the difference shall we?

Our brains:

When we have difficulty feeling pleasure, joy, satisfaction or contentment we often display this numbing experience from pain through chaos attraction and high intensity relationships or environments. If during our journey of becoming the survival mechanisms inside our brains have been conditioned to shut off the ability to "feel reward" or to "feel pleasure" is kind of suppressed, thus we seek and require high intensity situations in order to spike the chemical release and feeling in our brains of anything at all, really. What can cause this? Having emotionally dysregulated caregivers, unstable homes, unstable nurturer/providers, and more. There may be an element for you where the drama cycles are because of this conditioning, but then we also on the other hand find ourselves entering into karmic relationships that fool us into thinking "they're the one" because the intensity and "symptoms" are kind of similar, above all it creates delusion of "love." Put simply, if the connection you have felt was indeed your Twin Flame, then there are some key differences you will want to look out for. Karmic connections typically don't contain very fertile ground. *grabs chest/heart and falls to the ground* The soil together is so infused with baggage and past life toxicity, memories and emotions from lifetimes before that it's almost impossible to grow healthy vegetation from it.

Most of the time we are recycling through the same old loaded stuff and if you did happen to look at your past life regressions with your "intense love connection" you're likely to find that the energy, situations and exchanges have been similar throughout each one. Yes it's invo=igorating and intense with this person at times, but are they actually your "one and only?"

Let's delve deeper and look at karmic connection vs twin flame love, too often we stay stuck in toxic situations (regardless of what kind of connection) with the hope of gaining love, respect, acceptance, understanding and more.

What are the main indicators that somebody is actually our twin flame?

Karmic connections forever have us fighting for love, it's like every ounce of you has to squeeze the lid on them to force understanding and even when they do open up and connect you still underlyingly sense your love and worth is unmet, unseen.

It's hot and cold, back and forth, and never really finds a lasting balance in the dynamic. No matter how hard you try the other person or both of you; A- never truly understand each others inner language and B- don't have the same amount of love or the frequency of this love doesn't match.

In karma drama we are always in conflict even though you might have moments of intense connection and genuine love.

However, twins have the same love. Even when it's hard or separated theres a mutual knowing in both individuals that love is mutual in the connection. A karmic connection will have you wondering more often than not whether love, respect etc is actually real. That is, if your rose tinted glasses can come off long enough to truly question the reality and jump out of the loop. These conflict, survival energies are a low frequency energy, they're magnetic, charged and keep you in a kind of vortex. Fatal attraction is what this kind of karmic connection can be, it's destruction on top of destruction. *Joy* and it doesn't usually end well. In saying that... so can the twin flame experience.. hence the confusion right. When it comes to the twin flame we were brought into existence at the same time, our nature is the same in its essence, the bond and that love can never be destroyed even with aeons of potential collatoral damage together or alone along the way. Consider two biological twins and how unsevered that bond is, if we take them away at birth the individuals both tend to experience a life time of deep "emptiness" .. knowing there is something missing from them.

In our twin flame wound we seek something to fill the "hole" or the "void" often reaching towards the wrong thing. While we can display similar traits with a twin and karmic bonding, such as; - push pull - power dynamic - intensity - insane chemistry etc -knowing

The love is simply not the same.

A karmic bond remains in competitive nature. We loop, we sacrifice, that power over dynamic becomes the leading baggage and discomfort.

If Twin Flames do meet love is INNATE. While karmic connections do emit similar frequencies to the twin flame the awesomeness is unmatching.

What can be achieved and actualised within your twin flame far outweighs the karmic connection, you see the twin flame has the potential to help you heal all wounds within the soul. This potential together is a powerhouse of light when brought together compared to the karmic connection.

Sometimes feeling the intense energy in karmic relationships tricks us into "seeing the light" because we feel the power... but that power is rarely actualised into co-creation. On some level we are more uninanmous when working together with the twin flame. Even if you guys aren't "healed enough" to put the power together fully or to remain in harmonious connection the benefit is still more highly charged than the growth you may or may not see in karmic relationship.

Provided we are not tooo different in our frequencies... i.e. we are actually vibrating at a close enough to each other the benefit is more clearly seen with our Twin Flame. The love is much more powerful and mutual it can't be denied or deluded. Together the team work and mutualwillingness to defend the fire is far greater and the substance that comes from karmic connections. The Twin is nature, elemental life giving.... Keep an eye out for Pt 2 of this blog series, for more on the Nature, the Breath of life that is the twin flame.